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Dating Men Over 40 – 5 Tips You MUST Know…
If you’ve been around long enough, you know that things change when you get a little older. Especially when it comes to love and relationships. Dating isn’t just a giggly trip to the movies like it was in your teens and twenties…
Now you have to deal with mature dating – and know how to handle things as a grown-up. Yeah, I know – bummer.
But things are better later on. You’re wiser, more confident, and you don’t have time to waste on game-playing with those “players” out there.
And if you have to date a guy over 40, you should know how to handle yourself – and not get surprised in the process.
So I’m going to cover 5 special tips for you if you’re dating a “silver fox” – that’s a more affectionate way of describing those guys that are a little more gray.
First – the benefits:
Older guys are better in bed. Usually, anyway. And that’s good for both of you!
Older guys are more established in their career, and they have more time for you…
Older guys have more interests and hobbies to include you in. It’s not just about playing beer pong on the weekends…
Older guys are also in a better place financially. (If you find yourself dating a guy who’s still struggling at age 40 with his money, that’s a red flag, by the way…)
Now, that last bullet point leads us right into the first tip:
Dating a guy over 40 – Tip #1: Follow The Money…
Watch how he treats you, and his money…
It goes without saying that if you’re dating a man, you want a guy that treats you right.
But you also want to choose a guy that has his financial $#!+ together.
Look, let’s be realistic – if you’re a woman dating a man, you care how much he makes. Nothing says “unattractive” like a low-ambition guy who’s content to just scrape by on a minimum wage job. And frankly, if you’re still dating these guys, you need to level-up, honey.
“What?? Carlos, are you saying it’s okay to be a gold-digger?”
No, I’m not saying you should look for some sugar-daddy to support you for the rest of your life…
HOWEVER, if you want a relationship with a real man, you need to choose a guy that’s earning his keep.
You see, women are attracted to rich men for a very practical reason: His earnings generally show how ambitious a provider he is. Women are attracted to providers. And men are happy to provide for you.
So don’t feel guilty that you’re turning into one of THOSE women. Looking at his earnings potential is just a way of seeing if you’re going to be stuck with Homer Simpson, or a guy who will lift you a bit higher up in life.
Oh, and watch how he manages and handles that money, too.
Is he stingy and tight? (This is bad…)
Is he conservative and frugal? (This is good…)
Is he frivolous and a show-off? (Again, bad…)
That will give you insight into his character that you might not be able to see until years into a relationship, so pay attention.
Courtship After 40 – Tip #2: Don’t Turn On The Change Machine…
A guy in his 40s is not going to be clay, my dear. He’s going to be pretty well set in his ways by now…
Meaning that you’re not likely to change him. And the worst thing you can do is to turn on your “change machine” and make him into your fixer-upper.
I might argue that trying to change ANY man is a bad idea – mostly because it sends the message that he’s not good enough as he is. This is the same as REJECTION to a man.
I’d also suggest that trying to change him is even more of a waste of time on a guy in his 40s or later.
When a person has reached their 40s, their personality is now set in stone. He knows who he is, and who he doesn’t want to be. And any woman that steps in and starts trying to make him “perfect” is in for a rude awakening.
The key for you is to choose a guy that’s “perfect enough” and leave it alone. Show gratitude for what you have.
Dating A “Silver Fox” – Tip #3: Remember What HE Wants…
If you want to hook a guy who’s in his 40s and is a better prospect for a partner, you gotta know what he’s looking for in a woman.
In a study of over 650,000 (yeah, that’s thousands) online dating profiles, here’s the top 2 traits men want in a woman – in order:
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