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5 Signs he’s playing mind games

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How Do You Know When A Man Is Playing Mind Games With You?

Watch for these 5 Signs…

Ever wonder if your man is just toying with your feelings?

Ever wonder if he’s playing you for the fool?

Well, I’ve got something shocking to show you about men and their mind games… but first I want to explain some of the top “game playing” maneuvers guys pull on you – and what’s REALLY going on behind the scenes.

But first, let me share my Head Games Rule with you…

HEAD GAMES RULE: Play The Game To Win-WIN!

What I mean by that is that you can’t get caught up thinking this is some kind of one-on-one game of wits, where you want to come out on top. You have to set the priority to win for BOTH of you. It’s not just about you – it’s about your feelings for each other for the long run.

And if you only play to your own victory, you’ll be ignoring the partnership you’re trying to create.

Okay, let’s get to the signs…

Starting with:

IS HE PLAYING GAMES? – SIGN 1: It’s Ghost Time…

This is when he’s ghosting you in the middle of texting…

You got a little frisky, and maybe you sent him a text or two to start the fires before you see him later.

Maybe he responds, maybe he doesn’t. But either way, you always feel like you’re rolling the dice on whether or not you’ll feel connected after the interaction. Or just disappointed.

What you should NOT do:

First off, don’t panic.

No, really, chill the $#&% out. This guy is not suddenly dating your best friend or anything. What’s likely is that he’s just busy and “not in the mood” to play.

What you should do:

So if he does appear to be deliberately ghosting you, if you detect this pattern of this behavior there’s really only 2 options:

He just doesn’t like texting that much.
NOTE: 90% of guys love texting … up until you sleep together the first time. After that, texting goes back to being a nuisance to us. Texting will always be more of a communication tool for women. Guys typically only use texting to work out logistics and send information.
He’s bored and just isn’t into it.
You should just give him a day or two of silence and you’ll see his attitude turn around. If he doesn’t text or reach out to you more than a few days later, you should write this guy off and move on.

If his behavior is continually uneven, you should check this next Mind Game sign in the list…

THIS HAS TO BE A MIND GAME – SIGN 2: He’s Your Personal Roller Coaster…

Sometimes he calls, sometimes he doesn’t. Sometimes he’s eager and excited, other times not so much.

Last night he was sweet and loving, and today he’s weird and kinda distant.

He’s hot and cold, back and forth… and you feel like you’re being whipped around in your own personal Love Roller Coaster the whole time.

This ride only creates one thing: Anxiety.

And that anxiety will push you to do things you wouldn’t normally do. You might even panic now and again that you’re “losing him.”

What you should NOT do:

Don’t Panic!

It’s tempting to let the situation spiral out of control, but you have to stay grounded and calm. When a guy acts erratically, it’s a sign that he’s dealing with his own emotions.

What you should do:

Give him some time and space to sort things out. As long as you didn’t just sleep with him on the first date (you didn’t, did you?) you should be fine.

But if he continually plays the come-closer/go-away game with you, it’s time to move on. This kind of uncertain dynamic will drive you crazy over time.

OH, and if you DID sleep with him on the first date, stop doing that! You’re welcome to enjoy sex the way men do. But when you give it up too quickly and easily, a man will lose all desire for the chase.

HE’S MESSING WITH MY MIND! – SIGN 3: Pack Your Bags – We’re Going Guilt Trippin…

One of the worst ways a guy WILL play with your head is the guilt trip. (And – to be fair – women do this one quite a bit, too.)

When he’s playing you like this, he’ll play with your sense of fairness and your values to manipulate. Women are especially susceptible to manipulation when it comes to how she’s viewed by others.

What you should NOT do:

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Carlos Cavallo
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