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Will he come back if I leave him alone? 3 TIPS

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“Will He Come Back If You Leave Him Alone?” – 3 Priceless Tips

How do you know if your man will come back to you?

That’s a tricky question for a lot of women. If you’ve felt that ache after he pulls away or disappears on you, you know that feeling.

First, you’re worried… Was it something you said? Something you did?

Then you feel like you need to do something… Should you text him? Call him? Hang out on his front porch until he comes home?

And then the panic becomes real and palpable when you start to wonder if he’s ever going to come back to you. The bottom line is that you want to let him go so that he misses you and wants you back.

You’ve probably heard other “gurus” and dating advice experts tell you that you should just LEAVE HIM ALONE.

Why do they say you should just leave him alone?

If you keep pestering him or forcing your way into his life, he’ll start to feel smothered – and then run even faster…

If you want him to really miss you, you have to be willing to give him a chance to miss you. Which means hanging around and showing up is a no-no…

Whenever you’re alone and the relationship is in jeopardy, you always fall back on the good parts of the relationship. And that’s what you want him remembering…

Most women panic – and start to make a mad scramble to win him back when he seems to be pulling away, which is what you DON’T want to do.

Today I want to talk about whether or not your man will miss you or come back to you if you just leave him alone. Because you might be wondering if that will really happen.

Will it really work?

(Plus I also want to save you from checking your phone every 5 minutes and driving yourself slowly insane.)

Let’s take a look at this, because chances are you’re wondering if you can bring him back to the relationship. I can tell you from experience and having been a guy all my life just exactly how you can make that time apart work in your favor.

Let’s get started with:

Leave Him Alone Tip #1: Don’t turn into the Crazy Ex…

Just about the worst thing you can do is to completely lose your cool and start posting insane things on social media.

Such as…

Images of you and him from the past on Pinterest or Facebook… (Nope… Crazy.)

Weird video posts online of you just talking into the camera in a daze as you recall the romantic times you shared…

Any social media manifestos of how “all men are pigs,” “oh woe is me,” or any other self-pity parties or bids for attention from anyone online…
The fact is that –

“Social media is about the worst thing you can indulge in when this happens…”

Some things you should definitely NOT do on social media:

Don’t update your snapchat story every 3.4 seconds – Anything you try to make him jealous is going to backfire on you. Put down the phone, walk away.

Don’t use Twitter as your online diary. Especially if you’re going to post a running passive aggressive rant about how he done you wrong…
Don’t check out who is liking his posts or instagram feed… this is cyber-crazy.

Deleting or untagging images online, anywhere. Just let that go, because everyone can see through that kind of crazy…
Tindering your pain away by getting swiped into empty & casual s*x. You’ll always regret it…

Flirting online with men to try and re-validate your desirability. If you’re feeling low, go talk to a counselor or professional. Don’t paint yourself as the pathetic girl who has to flirt to redeem herself…

There are other crazy ex things you can do, like showing up at his house unannounced, drive-bys at all hours of the day/night (his home OR office), calling from a “burner” phone to hear his voice, etc.

I won’t go into the stalker-ish stuff because that’s a league beyond this article. If you’re ready to do that, I can’t talk you down from the ledge, girl.

Just remember one thing from all this – don’t post or add ANYTHING online during this time.

For one – you’ll probably scare him off the rest of the way, thus answering your question if “leaving him alone” works…

For another – you’ll be leaving a digital record of your coping skills for him, all your friends, all his friends, and everyone in the world to see.

Remember the saying attributed to Abraham Lincoln….

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