99.9% of all guys are turned off if you say THIS! (Or DO this…)
If you’re not careful with your communications, you might turn a guy off if you say the wrong thing. You don’t want him to think that you’re being a jerk, and you sure as heck don’t want to scare off a good catch.
Now, chances are you’re not TRYING to turn him off. (I hope not, anyway.)
You’re probably doing your best to be charming, delightful, and attractive for him. But it’s certainly possible to say something that might make him give you that confused-tilted-dog look that says you might have bunked it up a bit.
Oh, and before we get going – let me tell you that “Women who only order salads” is not on this list of turn-offs. You may have seen this bit of advice that says that guys are turned off by women who order salads. Well, we would be turned off if it was obvious that she was just putting on an act – i.e., trying to look like she cared about her weight.
But hey, if you want a salad, order one. We don’t care!
So let’s take a look at the things that really make men step back and think twice. Let’s avoid turning guys off if at all possible.
Before I give you the big #1 turn off for 2019, let’s talk about –
Here’s what turns guys off…
Attitude Turn Off #1: Arrogance
If you thought only guys could be arrogant, you’d be very very wrong.
I’ve been on dates with women that talked non-stop about who they know, how important they are, how impressed I should be…
It’s really gross to listen to a woman talking arrogantly. Because – not only is it revolting to listen to someone trying to FORCE you to like them because of who they think they are – but it’s also something we associate with a masculine mistake.
When guys do it, it’s yucky enough. When a woman acts this way, guys are just as turned off.
Attitude Turn Off #2: Entitlement
This one isn’t too far from Arrogance, if we’re being straight with each other.
Entitlement is the arrogance of “I deserve it just because.”
This one also comes up in my experiences dating way more times than I want to admit.
I had a woman who literally stiffened up and gave me a speech when the check comes that it is MY duty to pay. Never mind that I was gladly going to get the check, but that she wouldn’t give me that opportunity to show her my intentions.
That women never saw me again.
Maybe her goal was a free meal, but she could have had so much more without the entitled attitude.
There’s a big difference between a healthy feeling of your own self worth, and the attitude that things should just fall into your lap because you “deserve” them.
The shame of it is that those who really deserve it never ever put that upon the people around them. They just let the “deserving” manifest in their lives naturally.
Attitude Turn Off #3: Dull Conversation
I’ve been on quite a few dates where the girl I was with just couldn’t hold her own in conversation. This is usually not the norm, but it has happened enough that I decided to look into what was going on.
It usually came down to a certain level of shyness on her part. Sometimes, it was as if she expected me to entertain her. Sometimes I even noticed a certain level of disconnect where she had NO CLUE that talking to a guy doesn’t involve a degree or night school.
No matter what the reason is, you can be sure that guys will not be interested if you don’t give up some good conversation.
He’s just like you, only he’s a guy. He has interests, hobbies, a family, etc. So there’s really no excuse for not at least keeping up your end of the conversation.
Oh, and just to be perfectly clear, even though your conversation may have sparkle, YOU also need to avoid the mistake of being BORING. There’s no sin greater for any man to endure someone who doesn’t seem like they’ve really worked on themselves much.
Attitude Turn Off #4: Drama!
Look, I’ve mentioned this countless times in my blog and on my youtube channel…
Guys really hate conversation that’s centered around mundane human drama.
The ins and outs of what that nasty woman is doing to make your life miserable is not something that a guy relates to.
For men, it’s simple. If a guy is giving you grief, you:
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99% of guys are turned off if you say this – or DO this!