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How To Text A Guy To Keep Him Interested – 7 Tips
If you want to keep a guy interested in you, you have to know what it is he’s looking for. And that’s what we’re going to explore here today. I want to reveal – and explain – how to text a guy to keep him interested in you.
Often times, you’ll have a great conversation, exchange phone numbers… and then nothing. It fizzles out…
Now, a lot of the time a woman is waiting on the man to initiate and get things going. This is how women feel that spark of interest and desire from a man.
And you NEED to feel that spark! All relationships need it. It’s a necessary part of the dating ritual that a lot of people overlook.
Now, before we get into how to text a guy to keep him interested, I want to review a couple of the things you should NOT do when texting a guy.
Don’t Make These Mistakes When Texting A Guy:
Don’t Do This – Mistake 1: The Flipper…
Women don’t want to have to do the whole “let’s get this thing started” when it comes to romance. You don’t want to be the one to kick off the romance.
You want him to show some interest…
If he doesn’t show interest, you don’t know if he’s really into you or not. How do you know if he just picked you because you were “convenient”? You want to know he really wanted you!
You don’t want to seem like a “slut”
Let’s be really clear – there are a bunch of things women do purely to avoid looking “easy.” This behavior has been handed down over hundreds of thousands of years to influence your behavior when it comes to dating and relationships. A woman knows that her reputation and social standing is important to her. So, yes, you don’t want to initiate or show interest in him for fear that it makes you look “easy.”
You want to feel like the Woman…
This one goes hand-in-hand with #1. In order for you to feel comfortable with a man, you want to know that he’s got the ability to take action. Show interest. And if you flip the gender roles on him, you’ll never really know. Don’t let the news fool you – gender identities are perfectly natural and good. (As long as we don’t let them become unhealthy and weird.)
So don’t feel like you need to “flip the gender roles.” This almost always works against you.
You don’t have to start the process if you don’t want to.
Don’t Do This – Mistake 2: The Weak Opener…
This one is easy, but it’s so easy that most women never catch it.
Have you ever texted “Hey!” or “Hi” to a guy?
You were probably hoping that doing that would remind him you existed and kick his ass back into gear – make him text you back.
What you hoped you would get back: “Hey! Oh my gosh, I was just thinking about you… I can’t get you out of my head. I’m so glad you reminded me to text you.”
In reality he responds: “Hey! What’s up?”
And that’s being generous.
Give him more…
Sending one-word texts in the hope that he’s going to suddenly remember to crave you again is kinda silly. You might even think I’m being silly at suggesting that was your motive – but if you check in with yourself, you’ll see it’s probably true.
You sent a short text in the hopes that it will trigger a huge outpouring of desire from him. This also allows you to feel like you didn’t make mistake #1 of being the initiator.
But you actually did initiate.
Don’t send one-word texts. This is frustrating for a guy because he can feel the pressure of what’s going on here – even if that wasn’t your intention!
Give him a question to respond to. I know this might be difficult to use as a text, because you won’t want to be so obvious with your out-of-the-blue text to him. It leaves you open to – GASP! – him not responding…
But the truth is that it’s easy to not respond when you just send him “Hey” or “Hi.” It’s easier for him to ignore you when you don’t really say anything.
Send the right question, however, and he’s putty in your hands.
Open your texting conversation loud, proud, and strong if you want to get him interested!
Now, let’s jump into –
How to text a guy to keep him interested – 7 tips:
There are some GREAT bits of advice in here, and you probably haven’t heard many of them.
You have some goals for texting him – and always remember
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