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10 Signs He Wants To Marry You – And 1 Big Red Flag!
Marriage is still a goal for most couples today – and that’s why you probably want to recognize the signs he wants to marry you. Mostly because – you just don’t want to waste your time with a guy who isn’t ready for commitment.
Am I right?
You want to go from girlfriend to wife with him – and not deal with those intimacy issues that always seem to come up. You also don’t want to read into signals that aren’t there.
You realise your biological clock is ticking, and if you want to experience your dreams of matrimony, he better be ready to get this relationship moving.
What are the signs he wants to marry you?
Well, we’ll explore that in today’s tips – and help you hear those wedding bells sooner rather than later. You need to be able to make the long-term plans for marriage that let you start planning your relationship future with him.
And stick around to the end, because I’m also going to point out one big red flag that could get in the way of you being husband and wife.
SIGN #1 He’s with you for the long haul: He’s showing up at the family gatherings…
This is probably one of the least noticed signs he wants to marry you. A lot of people started dating and just assumed that their girlfriend or boyfriend was just going to go along for the ride to all your family functions.
And then… a few months or years into what you thought was a long-term relationship, he stopped “showing up” for you.
He started coming up with excuses as to why he couldn’t make it this year to the Holiday dinner. Maybe he suddenly felt that July 4th was just going to be another drunk-fest with your family and came up with someplace else to be.
Not only this, but he’s probably also making sure to invite you to all of HIS family stuff. It’s a two-way street, and you’re both there for each other. You realize the relationship is special.
Guys are very picky about who they take to family functions, because he knows they will be seeing you as someone he could marry in the future. He knows they’ll also bug the daylights out of him about the seriousness of the relationship. So he must be okay with that to bring you along.
But one thing you should know – and that is that if a guy is of a mind to show up for you at your family stuff – and supports you – you’ve got a keeper on your hands. And there’s a good chance marriage is on his mind.
Yes, it’s absolutely crucial he’s there for you when you need him. And family gatherings show his commitment level.
SIGN #2 He’s thinking of popping the question: He’s starting “The Merge…”
The Merge starts to happen when he starts mingling parts of his life with parts of your life. You’ll start to feel that he wants to more and more of your life into his life.
Maybe you’ve both been talking about moving in together. This is a huge step that shows that he wants you as a part of his life – and it’s one you’ve probably been watching for since you started dating.
However, I would caution you against actually moving in first unless you have some real strong doubts about whether or not the relationship will make it. In study after study, it’s been shown that moving in with someone actually DECREASES the chances you will stay together and get married.
Still, there are other ways he’s trying to combine your lives, if only as a way for him to ease into the process of establishing a marital bond.
He might suggest pooling your money together…
Or taking a long vacation together (which is a kind of test for compatibility…)
Or maybe he suggests you two get a pet. This is a very subtle hint, but it’s real that he’s thinking of getting married to you if he wants to share that.
Or you discuss paying bills together (Money matters are a serious sign of a committed relationship)
He’ll find other ways to combine your lives that feel comfortable to him. He’s basically “trying you on for size.”
SIGN #3 He’s thinking of marriage: He’s Showing His …
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