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Signs A Man Is Attracted To You At Work
So you’re standing there talking (and making flirty eye contact) with that cute guy from marketing over a cup of coffee about the latest episode of “It’s Always Sunny In Philadelphia.” It’s right about now that you’d love to know what signs a man is attracted to you at work, right?
Knowing if he’s interested would at least help you figure out if you have a good chance with him.
It’s only natural to look for a sign of attraction, because no one wants to put themselves out there and be embarrassed when he isn’t interested back. It shouldn’t really matter, but it does.
And with so many subtle body language signs he could be giving, you gotta know which signs to pay attention to.
These days, you also have to be aware of all the rules and limits about romance in the workplace, too. You don’t want to invite his interest and then get in trouble over it later.
Before we cover the signs a man is attracted to you, let me help you stay out of trouble with a few rules up front:
RULE #1: Remember – Keep It SECRET!
Seriously – you’ll be really tempted to let all your girlfriends know about your little taboo coupling with this guy (if it develops, of course.) But don’t talk about it!
First of all, if it doesn’t work out, you won’t have risked your reputation or your job. This is a very real risk…
Second, if there are other people who are more ambitious (and less scrupulous) at your workplace, you’ll find yourself in a bit of a scandal…
Take it from a guy who used to date in the work place – you don’t want the extra attention. Play it safe!
Carlos Cavallo, Dating and Attraction Adviser
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I dated two women very seriously for several years from previous jobs. And one of these relationships was in an office with only 4 other people! It wasn’t easy keeping it a secret, but we had to.
If your romance goes well, eventually one of you can either request a transfer, or leave the company. Though, I won’t kid you about how difficult that decision could be.
Loose lips sink ships! Keep your romance where it belongs – between you and him ONLY.
RULE 2: Take it SLOW!
There’s no rush here. If anything, you want to be extra cautious about moving forward. Yeah, I know – you want to get this thing from zero to husband in 60 days… just so you can reveal it to everyone and impress them with the man you landed.
But you really have to be a bit more cautious. Especially with all the complications that could happen if things go sour on you.
Plus, you have to be aware that you can have a flirty attraction with someone for a long time before you finally go out on a date with someone. Which makes it easier to jump in faster with that person because you have this huge romantic / sexual charge built up with him.
Go slow… watch for the signs he’s not just interested in you, but that he’s a stable guy.
RULE 3: Never With The Boss!
I know this one should be common sense, but if there’s one thing you should NEVER do it’s date your boss, or a subordinate. In fact, it’s best if you don’t date ANYONE in your same department – even if they’re a peer. (And absolutely no workplace romance with a married man!)
If he gets promoted, or YOU get promoted, then you’ve got extra weirdness.
And let’s get real here – how long do you think your coworkers will take to figure it out?
And when power dynamics enter into your romantic relationships, it will cause more problems and complications. It doesn’t create a level playing court for you both to develop a real solid relationship.
The truth is that this is one thing to avoid at all costs. No romance is worth messing with your livelihood.
RULE 4: BE COOL!
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