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How To Connect With Him Emotionally

How To Connect With Him Emotionally
BY CARLOS CAVALLO · OCTOBER 15, 2019

If you’d like to know how to connect with him emotionally, you might find yourself beyond confused. Men don’t have the same emotional connection that you might find you have with your girlfriends, after all.

And if you don’t understand how to connect with a man using his special needs – you could be walking into a minefield.

Most men pull away from love relationships when he has a struggle to connect with his partner. He will assume the struggle is a “YOU” thing and not a “ME” thing, and he’ll assume you’re NOT the One for him. And marriage will be out of the question.

This is why it’s so imperative that you know how to communicate and connect with him to get him to trust you and open up to you.

If you’d like to know if you have an emotionally unavailable man in your relationship or marriage, you might like my article on that HERE…

It doesn’t matter where you are in your relationship – first date or fiftieth date – the principles are the same. You have to know the way into his heart and be able to connect with him. Better than his buddies can, and definitely better than any other women can. (Yes, including his mom!)

Especially if you desire marriage at some point.

In fact, one of the first mistakes most women make in a growing love relationship (or their marriage) is to prioritize the sex over the talking. Usually this is because our society and culture has prioritized the physical part of relationships as being more important.

And let’s face it – Communication isn’t easy!

Or… is it?

You’re going to be surprised at the real answer. I’ll share that answer after I show you the steps of –

How To Connect With Him Emotionally

TIP: Start sexy & fun…

The truth is that if a man senses that a conversation you’re going to have with him could lead to NOT HAVING SEX, he’s going to check out and withdraw. He won’t risk it.

I cover this in complete detail in my Passion Phrases program – but the fact is that men don’t just want sex; we NEED it. It’s a biological requirement for men to fall in love.

And one of the places where a man feels as if he has NO control is in the area of the bedroom. Men always feel that they’re at the whim of the woman when it comes to satisfying his physical intimacy needs. If his girlfriend or wife isn’t “in the mood,” he’s got to either wait or “handle it” himself.

It’s even MORE true in marriage, by the way.

And trust me when I tell you that you NEVER want your man feeling like he should go anywhere else but you for those intimate love needs. That’s part of marriage for a man.

So one of the best ways to get him to connect with you emotionally is to make sure your communication starts out sexy, fun, and light in tone. No matter what the topic might be!

Men need to be eased into communication.

The best way to make it easy for him is to start out on common ground with him.

Ever wonder why guys joke around so much with each other, giving them a hard time, etc.? Because this is the default “small talk” for guys. It’s allows guys to communicate in emotional ways but not be all sentimental and vulnerable at the start.

(Again, don’t shoot the messenger here. I’m telling you the Truth that most other dating and relationship experts won’t tell you.)

EXPERT TIP: He NEEDS Touch Intimacy…

Here is one area that men and women are actually very similar: We both crave physical touch as part of connection.

Women often use touch to “level set” the group if she says something strong or conspicuous. A woman will reach out to touch other women in the group instinctively to manage strong feelings.

Observe a group of women where one woman may start crying about something that’s really affecting her. The other women with her will almost immediately reach in and hold her to reassure her and contain her feelings.

And to stop her from dwelling on her sadness!

Men need intimate touch during communication to be vulnerable. It helps us to feel safe and “held.”

So be sure you use touch in the right way to keep him feeling safe, connected, and open to talking with you. It’s a huge marriage tip for you as well.

TIP: Watch The Limits…

Men have a limit to how much emotional content they can handle in a conversation. If it gets to be too much, he will feel “flooded.”

This is actually the term for when a person feels that they are …

If you want to learn the rest – watch the video!

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Carlos Cavallo
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How To Connect With Him Emotionally
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