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How To Tease A Guy With Texting – 9 Tips That Work
BY CARLOS CAVALLO · DECEMBER 3, 2019
When it comes to texting guys, and getting good results, there’s probably nothing more important than knowing how to tease a guy with texting. It’s the one skill that will have the most powerful affect on a man’s heart and his feelings for you.
When you pull out your phone and decide you want to connect with him, you probably want to make sure you make the biggest splash – without accidentally pushing him away. And if you don’t consider what you text him, you could possibly annoy him.
So we’re going to go into some depth about this topic. But first, you have to really understand what works and what doesn’t work.
And what TEASING a guy really means!
When you tease a guy, it’s not to tease him “sexually.” This is a common mistake that many women make with men.
They think that if they can just arouse his sexual desire, that will:
A) Make him desire her
B) Make him fall for her
And neither is necessarily true.
The point of knowing how to tease him with texts is to jack up his masculine competitive energy. That might sound like I’m referring to his sexual energy, but it’s really not the same thing.
Here’s an example:
If you were to constantly tease a young girl about her hair, or her clothes, what do you think would happen?
She’d probably eventually burst into tears and fall into some deep sadness. This is a perfectly natural response to this kind of teasing.
If you teased a young boy about the same thing, he might also go to tears – but more likely is that he would just get ANGRY. (Even if he did cry, he’d still eventually get angry after the tears stopped.)
This kind of teasing raises a different kind of energy inside a boy than it does inside a girl.
Now, of course, I’m not saying that you should ever tease a man cruelly about anything. That’s definitely not the kind of energy I’m talking about.
But you do want him to feel like you’re confident enough to rib him a little bit. This is perfectly healthy fun for adults to “play with” the emotional energy between them.
Relationships where one or the other person is so sensitive that they can’t take a little good natured poke of fun are the worst kind of torture after a while. You always feel like you’re walking on eggs.
And that’s why you need to make sure this is a guy with some resilience. Because if he’s not tough enough to withstand some teasing, you’re in for a painful ride.
Let’s Go Back To The Playground
The kind of teasing I’m talking about here is the kind that you might do at the playground.
For example, when I was around 10 or 11, the girls in elementary school used to call me “skinny bones” when we played outside at recess. (I was a pretty skinny kid back then.)
That was perhaps a tad mean, but it was closer to the end of the spectrum than if they’d gone in the other direction with something gooey and girly.
Don’t ever tease him about physical characteristics. “Buddha belly” = bad.
But you can use teasing as a tiny dig about something else. It’s all in the tone and lightheartedness you bring to your gentle teasing. I’ll explain this more through the examples coming up.
Now, let’s get into –
How To Tease A Guy With Texting – 9 Tips
Tip #1: Text Him When He’s Right There…
This is a lot of fun, and it’s surprising how many women miss out on this. Just text him while he’s sitting right next to you, or across from you at the table.
Maybe while you two are at the gym next to each other on separate machines. Send him: “Hey, dude, I’m thinking your pace is kind of lazy… speed up!”
It’s unexpected, and it’s likely to get him to smile right then and there.
Don’t do it too often, as that will rapidly seem needy and weird. But once in a while, this is a fun way to text him.
Tip #2: Give Him A Fun Nickname…
Again, the key to this tip is to push the limits a bit. Most women would be inclined to give him a cute and squishy nickname like “Puppy fur” or ” Kitty whiskers.” (Blech!)
Don’t do that!
Instead, use something that is a slight tease. Use a name that’s related to something silly he’s done, or even poking fun at something he might own.
EXAMPLE: Maybe he’s been fixing that old car in his garage for months now. You send him this…
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