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How To Know That You Love Someone
BY CARLOS CAVALLO ·
Love is the most tricky area of emotions for us to understand. It can be even harder if you’re wondering how to know that you love someone.
Is it really love? Or is it just infatuation?
How can you know for sure that you’re in love with this person?
Well, before I tell you the signs of falling in love, I want to ask a couple questions –
Do You Feel In Love With HIM?
Or do you just love the feeling of being WITH him?
It might seem like that’s just playing with words, but it’s actually important. If you feel love for the PERSON – that’s an important part of being in love. But if you just love the feeling you’re experiencing when you’re near this guy, you could also just be infatuated.
Infatuation is not really love, by the way. It’s often mistaken for love, but it’s not.
It’s a highly charged state of being that really equates to lust more than love.
Those initial chemicals that get dumped into your bloodstream when you meet someone that you feel a strong sexual desire for will create a perfect storm of desire in both of you. But the reality is that it’s not “love” at all. It’s simply a pure physical response to someone who might make some fast babies with you.
Hey, that’s how Mother Nature works.
Let’s jump into the signs of love, and then we’ll see how it applies to you…
How To Know That You Love Someone – 17 Signs
Sign #1: You’re Doped Up…
Falling in love means that your body is going to have a hormonal reaction. I know, not sexy when I say it like that.
But it goes back to what I explained about infatuation…
You’re going to feel a ton of drug-like effects ranging from:
The list goes on and on. You are literally under the effect of a half dozen or more chemicals in your bloodstream and brain that affect the way you think and feel, including hormones like:
And we all know about Testosterone in the guys…
So you can be sure that you’re going to feel a wee bit dopey when the first part of “love” starts to show up in your system.
It’s literally like being under the influence.
Sign #2: Can’t … Stop … Looking …
One of the most dramatically obvious signs of love as it starts in your system is that you just can’t stop staring at the person you’re in love with. You’ll look at their face, their eyes, their body, their hair…
And it seems so darn irresistible in the moment that you’re near them.
I’m sure you’ve experienced this at some point. It was usually back in our teens that we found that certain people we were attracted to – or dating – had this magical magnetism that keeps us looking at them as much as possible.
You almost wish you could just sit there watching them for hours… but that would get kinda creepy.
This is one that is more obvious for women than men, mostly because women are much better at controlling their physical responses in social situations. Guys, on the other hand, have no problem staring in creepy ways, as you may have experienced.
Sign #3: Can’t … Stop … THINKING …
Another compulsive behavior is when we can’t stop thinking about the person we’re in love with.
This is heavily influenced by those love hormones I mentioned earlier. Those hormones are actually rewiring your brain to desire and bond with that person you’re in love with!
Which seems a bit unfair, but hey… the reality of love is that you don’t get to choose the people you fall in love with.
So if you find yourself preoccupied with thoughts about your love interest,
or you can’t help fantasizing and imagining them…
or you just replay moments from the past with them like rewinding a movie you’re constantly streaming in your head…
You’re probably falling in love.
But I would encourage you to distract yourself as much as you can and not let yourself think too much about them. Constantly fantasizing about a person could put you in a position where you are the one that loves the most in the relationship.
And that means you could find yourself riding a crazy emotional roller coaster with him…
Sign #4: Giving and giving and giving …
One of the crazy signs of love is the one that makes us affirm our belief in why love is so good, even if it doesn’t always work out.
We tend to become very…
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