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Is He Waiting For Me To Text Him? 9 Smart Texting Tips
Texting seems to be the new battleground of dating these days. And if you’ve been waiting for a guy to text you back, chances are you’re also wondering “Is he waiting for me to text him?”
Even if you’re over 30 (as most of the women I coach are) – and you’re looking to get married, or just have a passionate love affair – you’re probably using text messages to communicate with him. And let’s face it, 20 year olds don’t need dating advice. (Those young women only really need experience.)
I’m here for the woman who has reached an age where she’s serious about her relationships and is ready for her “forever man.” And I’m betting that’s probably what you want.
What you need to win him is –
A few good texting strategies to understand how to text a guy in a way that gets him to text you back…
And so you don’t wait around on him wondering if you should make the first move.
You need some straight facts about how to text men – from a guy.
Sound interesting to you?
Okay, then let’s get started!
First – you’re probably wondering this:
Are There Rules For Texting Guys?
The short answer is, YES – there definitely are rules for texting men. (And when NOT to text men.)
RULE 1 FOR TEXTING A GUY: Don’t text any emotions to him…
He won’t know what to do with that, even if they’re positive loving emotions.
Some guys just freeze up like a deer-in-the-headlights when emotions are put in front of them like this.
And to be honest, if you’re using texts to say emotions instead of speaking them, that could be a sign of too much fear in your new relationship. That fear will just sabotage the connection you want.
RULE 2 FOR TEXTING A GUY: Stop using so many emojis and punctuation marks…
Guys – MATURE guys – will think this is immature and the mark of an unintelligent woman.
Also, if you feel that you need to put emojis or a lot of punctuation in your text message, that probably means you didn’t spend a lot of time thinking about how to say what you’re trying to say.
As a famous author once said, “Pardon how long this letter is – if I’d had more time, it would have been shorter.”
And a related rule is also: Spell out your words, and spell them right!
You still want to look smart – even when texting. A guy is still evaluating you, the same way you’re evaluating him. Show him the best possible version of you by putting effort into all your communications. Yeah, even texts!
RULE 3 FOR TEXTING A GUY: Never text him more than 2 times to “get his attention…”
Women are notorious for wondering if the guy got her text – and then proceeding to keep sending 17 more text messages to him to “make sure.” (Yeah, guys do this one occasionally, too.)
Here’s a fact: Guys see through the “just wanted to make sure my text got through!” excuse.
Or that extra lame: “Just wanted to say hey!”
Mmm hmmm. Sure.
Here’s another fact: Text messages almost NEVER get lost.
Trust that he saw your text, and he’ll respond when/if he wants to.
If you’re still in doubt about him, you really should be calling him at some point. Because if he doesn’t respond to a phone call or message, you know immediately how he feels about you.
(Which is probably why so few people do this…)
RULE 4 FOR TEXTING A GUY: Don’t use texting because you’re chickens**t…
Let’s be real for a moment here… A lot of people use texting as a way to avoid confrontation and to take the easy route in communication.
Sure, texting is fast and easy, which means you can send more little itty bitty messages over the course of the day.
Texting FREQUENCY does not …
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