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5 Signs he likes me more than a friend
When you’re attracted to a guy, it makes it very difficult to relax into being with him and just letting go of your wild emotional roller-coaster.
Most of the time, this is because you’re not quite sure if he’s into you or not. Which is why it’s so scary at the start of any romance.
And when you’re feeling so uncertain about things, it’s also easy to get caught up in whether or not to be vulnerable with him. After all, you don’t want to risk rejection if he’s not really into you.
So let your best Guru friend (uh, that’s me, Carlos) help you out…
Let’s take a look at the signals a guy gives off that tell you if he really likes you –
Here are 5 signals he likes you more than a friend:
He likes you more than a friend – Signal 1: He’s different around you…
One of the easiest signals to read is whether or not he seems to be treating you different than his other female friends.
Now, of course the best way to do this is to get around him and his female friends, which is pretty scary if you think about it. You’re putting yourself right in the thick of the Jealousy Monster’s lair.
But if you can keep your cool, it’s the fastest way to see if there’s something more about how he attends to you than the other women in his life.
Some of the ways a guy can be “different” are:
– Makes you more of a priority…
– Spends more time focused on you than others…
– Speaks to you in a different tone/emotional state than others…
Ultimately, you have to trust your gut on this one. If your instincts are telling you something’s up, chances are they are.
Guys are terrible at hiding their interest.
So if you see the signs, you can take it as a signal that you want to give him a “come closer” vibe.
More than friends – Signal 2: His eyes give him away…
Guys are notoriously bad about eye control.
Yes, we tend to stare sometimes. Even to the point of being a bit creepy.
What is it with men, anyway?
Well, first off – guys are visual creatures. This is also probably not news to you.
Men have heightened visual focus because throughout the hundreds of thousands of years we’ve evolved, man’s greatest survival skill was seeing and recognizing threats with our eyes. If that slight movement in the underbrush might mean a poisonous snake or wild mountain lion, we had to see it ahead of time.
If we missed that signal – we were not going to get a chance to procreate and make babies with that same visual ability. It’s the evolutionary momentum in action…
This visual ability also shows up in our search for a mate. Men could tell everything they (initially) needed to know about a woman by taking her in visually.
Some of those visual mating cues are:
– Luster and sheen of your hair
– Whiteness and clarity of your eyes
– Fullness of hips & breasts
– Healthy complexion
These were fast signals to a man-brain that you were healthy to bear children.
(Yes, a man’s FIRST concern about a woman is if he can have healthy children with you. Not JUST the sex…)
So as early as we can, we’re going to look at you. Drink you in with our eyes…
Because if we’re attracted to you, we gotta know what we’re getting into before we start actively courting you.
And when a guy sees a woman that strikes his fancy, he’s going to find it damn irresistible to look at you over and over. Taking in all the detail of your face and body.
If you catch him stealing glances at you, there’s definitely some interest there.
He’ll also probably hold your gaze a little longer than you might find comfortable. It’s probably not the “creep” part of him – it’s the wow-struck part of him.
From Friends Into Lovers – Signal 3…
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