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Why Does He Ignore Me? 7 Reasons You Need To Know…
One of the most confusing things about relationships is understanding why people do such illogical and irrational things. The funny thing is that men ask the same questions about women that women ask about men…
And top on that list is usually:
Why does he ignore me? What happened?
When a guy’s behavior changes on you, it really shakes you up. Especially if things were going so well to begin with. When a guy changes gears all of a sudden, it feels like the rug just got pulled out from under you.
And it’s even more jarring when the man does it, because the man is supposed to be that rock-solid foundation for you to rely on. When a guy changes his attitude or behavior, it’s extra scary for you.
It’s easy to jump into what I call Panic Mode – where you immediately assume the relationship is headed for doom.
But before you do, I want to show you a few of the reasons a guy will ignore you.
Here are 7 reasons why he ignores you…
Why He Ignores You – Reason 1: He’s Trying Not To Lose It…
When a guy gets upset, he can get real.
Like, REALLY Real. Which can be very scary for a lot of women. Most guys know this, and we do our best to back off before the angry-guy or the hurtful-guy shows up.
So in a lot of situations, he’s staying quiet and off-the-air so that he can let his feelings mellow out. Because, frankly, they aren’t always real feelings toward you. They could just be his weird mood.
He could be coming off a crappy day at work,
…or a really stressful, drama-filled visit with the family…
…or his car just went into the shop…
Whatever his reason might be, you just have to respect his method of dealing with it solo for a while.
Nine times out of ten, he’ll be back after he’s worked it out.
Unless you insist on not leaving him alone out of insecurity of losing him. And then it’s assured that he’ll never be back…
He’s Ignoring You – Reason 2: He’s coming up for air…
To a man, a relationship can feel stifling. Confining.
Most women hear this and feel immediately fearful. After all, the very thing you want most – constant, deep connection – is something that a man might find unbearable at times.
Let me be very clear here:
Men do not feel this way ALL the time. In fact, after the first few rounds of pulling away and then coming back (which usually happen in the first few months of dating) he will mellow out and not ignore you as much. But those first few rounds of panic are likely to be challenging to you…
It’s not the CONNECTION that he finds stifling and suffocating. It’s when a woman doesn’t back off a bit and give him an opportunity to collect himself. Think of it like tickling… those first few seconds of tickling are fun and thrilling. But when the tickler doesn’t give you a break, it turns into a really bad trip.
He’s not pulling away from her as much as he’s trying to get BACK to HIMSELF. But if the woman clutches on mercilessly, his panic will turn into pulling away from her.
If you’re constantly texting him, calling him, emailing him, Skyping him, Facebooking, etc…
… you have to back off and let him breathe.
He’s probably just ignoring you for the moment to avoid a possible argument…
He’s Ignoring You – Reason 3: He’s super busy…
This is another one of those situations that women don’t really understand. Usually it’s because a guy she’s dated in the past pulled this and – and just wasn’t that into her. And then he used this as an excuse on her.
But more often than not, a guy will get caught up in the busyness of his life.
Usually this is because he ignored things in a few other areas of his life to get things started with you.
But that ignoring has a cost, and it has to be paid back eventually.
And so he realizes it and leaves you twisting in the wind while he attends to his life. But since he hasn’t called or texted you to explain this, you’re left to assume the worst.
And here’s something that might really scare the heck out of you:
Most men don’t put the priority on your relationship right away…
Men who are in a certain stage of their lives are going to …
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